COURSES | COMMUNITY | COACHING
Recovery From Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma Begins here
Evidence-based courses, live groups, and resources developed by clinicians and coaches who have successfully done this work.
Breaking the Cycle
Finding Solid Ground
Rebuilding Together
You know it can be better than this.
You keep promising yourself, or your partner, that this will be the last time. But the pattern keeps pulling you back. Porn, sexual acting out, secrecy… chasing a rush that leaves you emptier every time. You're worn down, carrying shame, and struggling to imagine what life on the other side even looks like. Insight alone hasn't been enough. You need structure and real accountability to feel grounded again, like someone you recognize. Even if the word "addict" doesn't feel like yours, you know something has to shift. That’s where we come in. Breaking the Cycle was built by a man who has stood exactly where you're standing. He knows what the double life costs, he did the work to get out, and he built this program so you don't have to find your way back alone.
This isn't about being broken. It's about being honest about what's happening and deciding you want something different.
There’s more to your story than betrayal.
As the partner in what felt like a secure marriage, you didn't see it coming. But now, everything you thought you knew about your relationship, and maybe about yourself, is in question. You're cycling through rage and grief and numbness, sometimes in the same hour. You've probably already done the thing where you go through his phone again and again, ask the questions for the tenth time, check his location… You’re looking for the detail that will finally make you feel safe, and it never works, but you don't know what else to do with the fear.
You don't need someone to tell you your feelings are real, you already know that. What you need is a way through that doesn't require you to shrink, offer up forgiveness you don't yet feel, or spend the rest of your life waiting for the other shoe to drop. This program was built by a wife and clinician who has done the hard, heavy work of healing. This isn’t tiptoeing around what happened to you, and it’s not about letting you stay stuck in it either.
This is about finding the solid ground that belongs not to him, not to the marriage, but to you, because that’s where your healing begins.
Structure. Depth. Real change.
Marshall's Legacy is an online program for men navigating sex or porn addiction, and for partners experiencing betrayal trauma. It's not therapy. It's not a 12-step meeting. It's a structured, clinically grounded course and community, with weekly interactive calls, built and guided by clinicians and coaches who have done this work from both sides of the couch.
Three tracks. One program.
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Breaking the Cycle
For Men Navigating Sex & Porn Addiction
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Finding Solid Ground
For Women Navigating Betrayal Trauma
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Rebuilding Together
For Couples Looking to Rebuild Intimacy
— OUR PROMISE —No matter where you are when you start, you will find value here.
Healing from sex addiction and betrayal trauma requires more than theory - it takes deep understanding, the right structure, and a process that's paced and practical.
We're a husband-and-wife team who've lived through the realities of sex addiction and betrayal trauma, and we bring that lived experience into every part of this work. This isn't about our story, but we do lean on what we've learned does (and doesn't) work to guide you through a process we know intimately, with clear boundaries and deep respect for what's at stake. This program has been successful for nearly a thousand couples because it's built on how the human brain actually works. In other words, it’s not centered around willpower, shame, or on white-knuckling your way through.
When you stop being controlled by the patterns that developed to protect you from pain, something unexpected happens: you get your life back. Your presence back. Your capacity to love back.
The capacity for real connection on the other side of the work is worth every bit of the effort.
Change is possible.
You don’t have to keep living in secrecy or damage control mode. With the right structure and support, compulsive sexual behaviors can be interrupted, betrayal trauma can be healed, and clarity can return.
This work isn’t easy, but it is possible. We’re here to show you the way.